Morning Cup of Joe – It’s a Small World

Explore I think back to a conversation I had while living in Houston with an individual who’d never travelled more than five miles outside of where they were born. According to them, they really did not have any reason to explore or travel outside of their comfort zone. The elementary school, middle school and high school they attended are all within a 3 mile radius from their home. This person grew up in a small town which may explain to some degree why they never had a desire to leave. It could also explain why so many others do.

I’ve never been one to sit around and wonder what’s on the other side of the wall. I would much rather climb the wall and find out for myself. I guess you can say I have always been curious about the world around me, even as a child. I’m glad that I have not lost my childlike curiosity because this is truly what motivates me to learn more and maintain a sense of fearlessness.

Think about it for a second. Most children exhibit no fear because they don’t know what fear is. They will test their boundaries, test their limits and if you have any, they’ll also test yours. The fear of the unknown will either restrict you from learning about something that you would otherwise never have an opportunity to learn or it will broaden your horizons by introducing you to elements that you wouldn’t otherwise be exposed to. Dare to step out of your own way.

When was the last time you traveled to another state or country? When was the last time you dared to figure out what was on the other side of the wall? When was the last time you were out of your comfort zone? A winner will always have an issue with being comfortable simply because we’re always looking for ways to better ourselves. Comfort is the cousin of laziness.

There is a beautiful world out there waiting to be explored by you. There are perfect strangers out there waiting with baited breath to start a conversation with you. There are cultures that would embrace you as one of their own. There is a life that’s worth enriching through experiences gained through traveling and exploring. You can learn so much from reading but there is no substitute for real-life experience. The Eiffel tower in person is much more breathtaking than any picture can capture.

I’ve studied abroad in Spain and Russia and my life hasn’t been the same as a result of these experiences. I traveled to Haiti after the devastating earthquake to bring resources to my family and their community. I have driven cross-country from Los Angeles, California to Orlando, Florida. I’ve travelled to almost every continent except Australia & Antarctica but they’re on the list. And on almost every one of these trips I tried to talk myself out of going by creating a myriad of excuses like not having enough money, bad timing or the fact that I didn’t have one connection in some of these countries. These excuses came because I was stuck in my comfort zone. I decided to step out on faith and just do it. Some of the best decisions of my life.

There is a trip you’ve been putting off for whatever reason, stop thinking about it and just go! The world is waiting for you.

“The world is a book, and those who do not travel read only a page.” – Saint Augustine

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Morning Cup of Joe – Childlike Curiosity

One of the great wonders of children is not only their ability to see things as they are but they are constantly inquiring about the world around them. Children never stop asking “why”. They are extremely intuitive and very in tuned with their surroundings. A child’s favorite question will always be “why”. I wonder “why” after a while we simply stop asking questions. I also wonder at which point in our lives do we start accepting things as they are and stop questioning the status quo.

Recently, I had the incredible joy of spending time with my amazing niece and nephew, Sariyah & Trayson. I was amazed at how perceptive they are to their surroundings and they are both younger than 4 years old. I know some adults who go about their day without a care in the world; they are not observant and are simply stuck in the matrix. If you are guilty, snap out of it. Curiosity kills cats, not humans.

For some odd reason, we stop growing and start aging. Growth comes when we ask questions, age happens while we sit there. Start asking questions. When you were a child, do you remember the millions of questions you would ask? Do you remember how you would look at something and wonder what it was or how it worked? Why has that stopped? In order to be successful, you must be as curious as a child. You have to start increasing your awareness of the world around you.

You can learn a lot from children. Stop thinking that you already know what you need to know; that is probably the reason why you’ve been stuck. If you want to get unstuck you have to start being curious.

The world around you will provide all of the answers if you simply start asking questions. Be curious.

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Joe Paul